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3 Self-Care Tips for Binge Eating Recovery

Serenity Awaits – Binge Eating & Wellness Retreat

If you’ve ever been a binge eater, you know that awful feeling that comes along after a binge. Layers of shame, self-loathing, despair, and regret weigh you down, while you swear to yourself never again. These are difficult moments to navigate. What steps should you take, post-binge, to start steering yourself in a healthy direction?

This question is asked by many of our guests and by binge eaters everywhere. After all, binge eating is remarkably common. In the U.S., 2.8% of adults suffer from binge eating disorder at some point in their lives, while binge eating behavior (that doesn’t rise to the level of a full-on disorder) is even more prevalent.

To provide support for individuals prone to binge eating (and all the emotions that come along with it), we spoke to expert Lisette Cifaldi, MSW, LMSW, owner of Eating Sanity. Lisette is a self-described recovering food addict who has devoted her professional life to helping individuals overcome binge eating and food addiction. She is an expert in the science of addiction, how food affects the brain and applying this knowledge in a holistic, spiritually nourishing way.

We asked Lisette: what are the best steps to take after a binge? While a Google search yields plenty of smaller tips and advice like “Drink lots of water” or “Take a walk” (and those suggestions can be quite helpful for short-term relief) Lisette’s answer looks at the big picture. Here are her three self-care steps for recovering post-binge.

1.) Make Sense of It

Get Above It

After binge eating, you’re physically uncomfortable and emotionally distraught. While your body and soul are recovering, you can call on your brain to help you out.

When you cognitively understand the dynamics of a binge – the triggers, the patterns – you can start to gain more control over your behavior. Leave out the self-judgment and examine the binge episode from a scientific perspective. As Lisette says, “Get above it.” Ask yourself “Why? How did it happen? When did I start thinking about food? What was happening leading up to this?”

After all, during a binge eating episode, your brain is playing a trick on you to highjack your willpower. Psychological studies confirm that binge eating shares many characteristics with addiction, making it inherently more difficult to avoid through determination alone.

But when you know the cues and triggers that tend to spur a binge, you can start avoiding them or recognizing them earlier on. Being aware of these patterns gives you opportunities to change them.

2.) Self-Compassion

Self-Compassion

Another plus side of approaching a binge on the cognitive level first? Once you understand what’s going on in the brain more, self-compassion gets a little bit easier.

Binge eating, like so many other mental and emotionally-rooted issues, is a natural byproduct of our primitive brains coming to terms with living in modern society. Binge eating doesn’t mean that you are weak, lazy, or anything else. It’s scientifically proven to have psychological roots deep in the neurological paths of the brain that are intrinsically difficult to overcome without help and dedication.

After all, you didn’t ask to be prone to binge eating. You don’t want to have this compulsion. And at some point, this behavior might have served you or soothed you. So be patient with yourself. Care for yourself like you would a friend or loved one.

Positive self-talk goes a long way in helping you prevent future binges. Since binge eating has roots in poor self-image and other kinds of emotional voids, hating yourself for it perpetuates the cycle. If you try to punish yourself, you’re just going to want to binge more. On the other hand, self-compassion provides a breath of fresh air that helps you choose a new path.

3.) Put Some Distance Between Yourself and the Next Binge

Increase Time Between Binge Eating

Binges are marked by compulsion and loss of control, so this is easier said than done. Start small. One way to do this? Focus on getting through one finite amount of time without a binge.

After you’ve taken time to think and reflect, Lisette recommends pulling out a calendar. Choose a date – say, three days from your last binge – and circle it. Hang it on your fridge or anywhere else you will receive a strong visual reminder. Make it your priority to get to that date without a binge.

While the ultimate goal would be to never binge again, this kind of serenity doesn’t happen overnight. The addictive nature of binge eating means that relapses are incredibly common. Give yourself an obtainable goal, remember your triggers and patterns, and practice taking alternate action when you feel the impulse to binge eat. With time, this gets easier and easier.

You may find that a shorter or longer amount of time might be more appropriate for you. If just one binge-free day is a challenge, start there. Gradually increase the duration as your self-care practices deepen.

The goal here is not only to start a binge-free lifestyle, but also to spare yourself from the negative emotions that layer up with each binge and every other anxiety in life. Give yourself space, time to grow, and room to recover.

Serenity Awaits: Binge Eating Specialty Week at Skyterra Wellness

If you found this advice useful, consider attending the Serenity Awaits Binge Eating Specialty Week at Skyterra. In addition to our full weekly wellness programming, we will be hosting Lisette for three days of special seminars.

You’ll learn more about the addictive nature of binge eating, its mechanisms and pathways in the brain, and a more in-depth look at strengthening your self-care practice to recover from the binge eating struggle. It’s the first step in gaining a sense of peace in your relationship with food.

Binge Eating Specialty Week

Serenity Awaits: The Path to Recovering from Binge Eating
Skyterra Wellness Retreat, with Guest Expert Lisette Cifaldi
December 3rd-9th, 2017
January 7th-13th, 2018
Starting at $2,800 per week

If you are a health or wellness professional interested in hosting a specialty week at Skyterra, we would love to hear from you! See our Partnerships page for more details.